Monday, August 25, 2008

7 stages of love

LOVE 
It's that feeling, that nobody could explain cause it different ppl have different experiences in this regard. 
Love just not happens at a sight. It is a horizon and every horizon have a fall, so love travels through seven stages. 

ATTRACTION: 
First of all see someone, you meet hundred of new people in your daily life. The first stage is attraction, that something appeals you, look twice, you get attracted by a person. 

INFATUATION: 
Then you get infatuated by that person. You start admitting it to yourself, that you like him/her, you ask yourself that what does that person means to you why you want to see him/her, why you adore his/her voice, why you get excited, when the attracted person looked at you, even a general look makes your heart bloom. 

COMMUNION: 
Then the third stage comes, when you admit it in front of that person, you introduce yourself like HI! i have noticed you around , I found you to be very attractive would you like to spend sometime with me or you started becoming closer to that person , so that he/she can notice you and you start chatting. 

INTIMACY: 
A very famous song is "everybody is looking for intimacy", that is deep friendship. Your communion stage is over & you both become necessary for each other to share, are the ideas and thoughts of each other , you have started thinking on the same levels that other person is thinking. 

SURRENDER: 
Then after coming or passing through the intimacy stage, your love enters in deliver our stage i.e surrender, you surrender yourself to that person, yes i am in love with that person. 

PASSION: 
Once you surrender, your loved one becomes passion for you. You want that person like anything, you adore & can't escape the thoughts about him/her you become passionate. 

ECSTASY: 
Last but not the least is the stage when you have strong feelings or agitation i.e ecstasy, thinking about one thing & that's the person, your all thoughts starts & finishes with that person. Here you decide that you 
can't live without that person. So you got or you lose. The most interesting thing i find out after reading this love horizon is the end. Now you read it 

THE END 
In the end, if you got then you lose the charm and if you lose you lost yourself 

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